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There are a lot of secrets in love and sex. As a man firstly you have to know what do women want? Study shown that Women appreciate a guy with a sensitive side, especially when they’re upset. Put your arm around her and hand her a tissue. Nurturing is a powerful way to connect. Women always believe that a Caring Guy Is a Hot Guy! Be careful about care!

The three dates before the sex rule is an urban legend. Women don’t set a timeline on when they’ll invite a potential partner into the bedroom. Some women will want to have many dates before sex. A good rule of thumb is to give the relationship at least two months to grow before entering the sexual arena.

You have to remember that women like the slow lane in love and sex! Guys often want to take the quickest path to sex. But many women prefer the scenic route. Psychologist Kirschner says, women want sex but they get to it in a different way. They want to feel connected and understood, they want to be romanced. That means time and talking and touching — in other words, foreplay.

Dress, style, fashion is matter nowadays love and sex. Styles come and go, but a man’s attention to his grooming and clothing should be long lasting. It’s important to women from the first flirtation through the honeymoon and beyond. You’ve got to figure out if there’s a certain look that she likes. If she likes a guy in tight jeans, you wear tight jeans.

Listening is important, but she also wants to know that she is being heard. Nodding along won’t cut it. When she pauses, she’s giving you a cue to respond in a compassionate, caring way. If she tells you that she is upset because her boss gave her a tough time, she wants to hear you say, I’m sorry that work was such a drag for you today. And remember: Resist the urge to offer solutions.

Nothing captures a woman’s heart quite like a good man who wants to be a better man, according to love guru Kirschner. She says, women love personal growth, they love a man who is thoughtful and sensitive. She likes it when her man recognizes a flaw — a short temper, for example, or a regularly sullen mood after work — and loves it when he makes an effort to address it.

Please don’t try to fix her world. It will bring to you a great foolishness. When something’s bothering her, she wants your ear, not your advice. Specialist of Love & Sex Kirschner says, men feel the need to fix things because they are solution-oriented. But to a woman, really listening is a wonderful, wonderful thing that deepens the relationship.

Women want sex but this should be in a safer way! Safe sex is a turn-on to them. This is something both of you need to focus on, but Kirschner says that women appreciate it and feel more protected when the guy makes clear that it’s a concern to him — and then shows her that he practices what he preaches.

If you want to go bed with your girlfriend you should know what she wants in bed. Women do like to talk to about what’s going on in the sack, and they want to please their man — and a tactful approach is often best. Ask her what she likes. Be sure to ask for what you want in a positive and validating way. Kirschner advises saying something along the lines of, I would really love if you…

Please look your partner in the eye. You may feel more comfortable sitting side by side, but many women prefer face time — and we don’t mean the latest mobile video chat technology. Women prefer their men to make eye contact with them as they’re talking. And looking her in the eye during sex will deepen the relationship outside the bedroom.

One thing you have to say again and again… You know women like to be told they look nice, and they like a man who notices without being told. When she’s wearing a sexy new dress, for example, she’ll give you major points for saying how hot she looks, especially if you mention the dress before she does. If she’s looking particularly attractive, if she has a new haircut, if she’s looking more fit — let her hear about it.